You can’t do digital evangelism without engaging in meaningful conversation. One of the core truths about digital evangelism is this: you can’t effectively share Christ without engaging people in conversation. And many times, before you even mention Jesus, you may need to first build a genuine relationship.
That’s where Digital Evangelism Conversation Starters come in.
On this platform, I’ve provided key resources to help guide and equip you in your digital evangelism journey. These include:
- Digital Evangelism Workbook
- Understanding Digital Evangelism
- Digital Evangelism Tract
- Step-by-Step Strategies for Sharing Jesus Online – (this one’s especially practical and detailed)
These resources are designed to equip and empower you for the reason you’re here—to reach souls online. I strongly encourage you to go through them before diving deeper into conversation techniques. But if you already have a solid understanding of digital ministry, feel free to proceed.
Why Conversation Starters Matter
Conversation starters are powerful tools for introducing Jesus in an organic way. You don’t always have to begin with a Bible verse or spiritual statement—it all depends on who you’re talking to.
One of the advantages of the digital space is the ability to research a person’s interests through their online presence. That way, you can find the right angle to begin a conversation. It might be sports, politics, business, music, or even family.
Most importantly, always involve the Holy Spirit in your approach. He may give you a word of knowledge or highlight a unique path to take in the conversation. Be sensitive. He knows the person more than you do.
Before We Get Into Conversation Starters…
Let’s talk about the conversation itself. Keeping a conversation going can be challenging—especially if you’re not naturally skilled at it. But don’t worry, here are a few practical tips to help you become more effective:
- Pray before initiating any conversation.
- Don’t be too hard on yourself.
- Let the conversation flow naturally.
- Stick to topics you understand.
- Always follow the promptings of the Holy Spirit, even when they seem unusual.
- Know when to introduce Jesus—especially if you started with a neutral topic.
- Stay calm and manage emotions wisely.
- Don’t force a conversation—let it grow organically.
- Know when to step back if the person is intentionally resisting or being disruptive.
- Don’t forget your mission: you’re here to make Christ known.
If you follow these principles, you’ll be better positioned to hold meaningful, Spirit-led conversations that lead people to Jesus.
Now, let’s explore some powerful conversation starters sections you can use to spark impactful digital discussions…
Conversation Starters Sections
Please note: these are just the sections.
I’ve prepared a special AI prompt that will help you generate unlimited conversation starters for your digital evangelism efforts.
1. Interest-Based Starters
Start with a person’s known interest (gleaned from social media or online presence).
- Sports
- Music
- Business/Career
- Movies/Series
- Books/Authors
- Hobbies (e.g., travel, art, fitness)
2. Life Situation Starters
Start based on something they’re going through or recently posted about.
- Celebrations (e.g., birthdays, promotions, milestones)
- Loss or grief
- Relationship changes
- Relocation or travel
- Job changes
- Academic pursuits (graduation, exams, etc.)
3. Current Events & Trends
Leverage trending topics to begin meaningful discussions.
- News headlines
- Viral social media topics
- Political updates
- Cultural movements
- Global events (e.g., Easter, Christmas, International Women’s Day)
4. Value-Based or Belief Questions
Tap into their values, morals, or worldview without being confrontational.
- “What inspires you the most in life?”
- “Do you believe people can truly change?”
- “What does peace mean to you?”
5. Creative & Engaging Starters
Use art, media, or creative posts as a bridge.
- Memes, reels, or quotes they share
- Engaging with their content and asking questions
- Sharing a short story or insight they can relate to
6. Direct but Gentle Spiritual Starters
These are soft openings to transition into spiritual themes.
- “Have you ever had a moment where you felt something bigger than yourself at work?”
- “Do you ever think about purpose or why we’re here?”
- “Can I pray with you about anything?”
7. The Holy Spirit-Inspired Starters
Unique words or prompts that come through divine leading.
- Word of knowledge or discernment
- Prophetic impressions
- Spontaneous words of encouragement
8. Crisis or Pain Point Starters
Start by empathizing with a challenge or problem.
- Mental health struggles
- Loneliness
- Anxiety
- Confusion about life
- Questions about identity or direction
9. Testimony-Based Starters
Use your own story or someone else’s transformation story.
- Personal encounter stories
- “I once went through something similar…”
- “A friend of mine shared this story and I thought of you…”
How to Generate Digital Evangelism Conversation Starters Using AI
You don’t have to come up with every conversation starter on your own—AI can help you! With the right prompt, you can generate simple, creative, and engaging conversation starters tailored to any topic or audience.
Here’s the recommended prompt to use:
Copy & Paste This Prompt into ChatGPT:
AI Prompt
“I want you to act as a conversation starter generator. Give me simple, creative, and engaging conversation starters that fit the topic of [insert section here].
I want to use them to talk to [insert who you’re talking to], and my goal is to [insert your goal – e.g. share the gospel, give hope, lead someone to Christ, encourage faith, etc.].
Please give me [insert number] conversation starters that are easy to understand and spread across different tones—some should feel friendly, some deep, and some comforting, depending on the topic.”
Example Prompt Filled In:
I want you to act as a conversation starter generator. Give me simple, creative, and engaging conversation starters that fit the topic of sports.
I want to use them to talk to young adults online, and my goal is to build rapport and eventually share the gospel.
Please give me 10 conversation starters that are easy to understand and spread across different tones—some should feel friendly, some deep, and some comforting, depending on the topic.
Guide to Using the Prompt
Here’s how to make the most of it:
- Choose your section/topic
e.g. sports, business, mental health, relationships, purpose, etc. - Identify who you’re talking to
e.g. young adults, creatives, students, working-class professionals, women, etc. - Define your goal
Are you trying to encourage, inspire, lead them to Christ, pray with them, or open a door for a deeper discussion? - Specify the number of conversation starters you want
You can request 5, 10, 15, etc. - Use the output wisely
Let the conversation flow naturally. Pick the ones that match the personality of the person you’re engaging with. Always stay sensitive to the Holy Spirit.
Once you get your conversation starters, save them somewhere—like a Notion board, your phone notes, or a conversation journal—so you’re always ready when the opportunity comes.
What’s stopping you from that conversation?
Digital evangelism is not about forcing conversations, it’s about being intentional, relatable, and Spirit-led. With the right conversation starters, you can bridge the gap between everyday interests and eternal truth.
As you engage people online, remember to listen, connect, and let the Holy Spirit guide you. The goal is not just to talk, but to touch lives and lead hearts to Christ.
Now that you have the structure, the strategy, and the AI prompt, you’re fully equipped to start meaningful conversations that make an eternal impact. Let the digital mission begin.
If you have any question, let me know in the comment section below
